Wedding Gifts With Style: The Do’s and Don’ts

Summer is traditionally wedding season and we always get asked about good décor gifts for the happy couple. These days a lot of people are a little older and more established when they get married – or maybe they are celebrating second marriages – so they have their own homes and don’t need the usual “starter” gifts like toasters and towels.

It’s always nice to give something people can use in their homes but I caution you to be absolutely sure you know their style and taste. I never buy a décor item as a gift unless I’ve actually been in the person’s house to see what she likes. After all, a gorgeous Asian vase is not likely to work with a recipient’s Tuscan-themed home.

For a more casual wedding, an appropriate and thoughtful gift that goes with any design is a potted plant. I’m not talking about a boring green plant, of course, but something more creative such as a hardy hoya (below) that requires little care or water but blossoms and grows for years. Replant it in a chic neutral container with a bow. The great thing about the hoya or a similar plant is it can be placed anywhere, even a bookshelf, so the newlyweds have flexibility in where they put it.

If you know the color scheme of the couple’s house (ask around to find out) you can buy a luxurious throw to accent their décor. For a more personal gift, have their wedding invitation framed to hang on a wall.

Wine drinkers always appreciate bottles from boutique wineries paired with wine accessories such as artful decanters – some are so dramatic they’re worthy of display – and whimsical wine corks.

Perhaps the best gift of all is one we don’t like to give but love to receive: a home décor or home improvement gift card. Make yours special by tucking in a note with an offer to go along and help select the purchase.

The biggest no-no in décor gift giving is assuming you know what the person wants or needs, which reflects poorly on you. Instead, make sure your gift is something they will actually appreciate or use – not a pricey crystal picture frame that will spend its life on a garage shelf.

Please contact us at Style on a Shoestring if we can help with any of your home design needs.

Filed under: Events,Gifts — Shannon @ 3:12 pm

Give Dad a Man Cave

You’ve probably heard a lot about man caves lately. It seems like every TV show about home searches or remodels includes a man cave – a place where the family patriarch can “get away” from his wife and kids.

It’s certainly possible to do a completely tricked-out man cave as we did recently for a client (see below). But you can make Dad happy on Father’s Day by creating a simple man cave for him – just spruce up your garage, den or other unused space with a few easy-to-find items.

• Start with an old sofa. (This is your chance to replace that worn-out sectional by donating it to your hubby’s man cave!) Add some comfy overstuffed pillows.

• Install a big TV and stereo system. Check eBay and Father’s Day sales for electronics that fit your budget.

• If your man cave will be in the garage, you might already have a second refrigerator there. If not, pick up an inexpensive dorm-size fridge and stock it with your guy’s favorite drinks and snacks.

• Decorating a man cave can be cheap and easy – use Dad’s favorite hobbies or sports teams. This is also a great place to display any sports memorabilia he might have. Think banners, pennants, equipment (bats, hockey sticks, ski poles), team player posters, signed items and trophies.

• If the man cave’s floor is a little too rustic, try attaching garage floor tiles in a checkerboard pattern or in his favorite team colors, such as Chargers’ blue and gold.

• A man cave doesn’t have to be a place where Dad is cut off from family. Include framed pictures of him doing activities with the kids, such as fishing, camping or playing sports. Although he will appreciate his new man cave, he’ll probably cherish those photographs the most.

Please contact us at Style on a Shoestring if we can help with any of your home design needs.

Filed under: Design Tips,Garages,Gifts,Specialty Rooms — Mary @ 8:32 pm